We Are What We Eat! by Special Guest Barrie Silberberg

You have heard this saying a million times, but what exactly does it mean to you, your family and your bodies?

Americans consume huge amounts of processed foods, including fast food, restaurant food and food you buy and provide for your families. Many European countries are changing how their families eat, by removing toxins from their foods, for a healthier world. Sadly, America, one of the richest countries in the world is poisoning their citizens. Not only are they damaging their bodies, but also their minds. School lunches are one of the worst culprits in our society, as well as all of the drive-through fast food establishments, that exist in practically every city in America.

Do you read labels on the foods that you purchase? Pay attention! There are too many ignorant people out there, who purchase packaged foods for their families, completely unaware of what those ingredients mean. This information is not just for families touched by a special needs child, these valuable facts are for ALL families!

We have more hyperactivity, autism and MANY other diseases and disorders out of control, than ever before. Many of these disorders can be eradicated or GREATLY improved by changing the diet to remove chemicals and toxins. Many people’s bodily functions can be greatly improved by getting rid of the wrong types of foods that enter your body.

Let’s start with processed foods. Something as simple as potato chips, can explain what I am talking about. Potato chips may not be the healthiest of foods, but they can still be a healthy option. There is nothing wrong with potatoes cut thin, baked or cooked in olive oil (or another healthy oil), and a small amount of salt. Three simple ingredients to satisfy your taste buds. Here is an ingredient list from a leading national company, who packages chips for the purchasing public. Potatoes, Sunflower Oil and/or Corn Oil, Flamin’ Hot Seasoning (Corn Maltodextrin, Sugar, Sunflower Oil, Dextrose, Malted Barley Flour, Torula Yeast,
Monosodium Glutamate, Artificial Color (Red 40 Lake, Yellow Lake, Yellow 6 Lake), Corn Syrup Solids, Salt, Autolyzed Yeast Extract, Tomato Powder, Onion Powder, Citric Acid, Garlic Powder, Natural and Artificial Flavor, Spice, Sodium Caseinate, Disodium Inosinate, Disodium Guarylate) and Salt.

First off, you can clearly see there are ingredients listed that you have no clue what they are or where they even came from. This is the first lesson is how to read a label. If the list is long and full of odd, strange words, put it back on the shelf, this is not a healthy choice. Dextrose is just another word for sugar, which is already listed here. Why on earth do your potato chips need sugar? I can guarantee that this sugar is processed, refined and unhealthy! Corn syrup is never healthy. You can read all over the Internet about the dangers of corn syrup. The worse offenders here are the artificial ingredients, especially the Lake Dyes. These dyes are purely chemicals, made from petroleum oil, yes..what goes into the gas tank of your car. These colors (which have been abolished in many other parts of the world, they use fruits and vegetables to color their foods, instead) can harm your body and mind. Read more on www.Feingold.org about how your body and mind react to preservatives, chemicals and artificial ingredients, especially artificial colors. There are way too many destructive symptoms to list here that can occur by ingesting these chemicals. I will just name a few: hyperactivity, poor sleep patterns, skin disorders, bowel disorders, disruptive and/or abusive behaviors, inappropriate noises, aggression, mood swings, depression, low self-esteem and so much more!

You owe it to your family to read labels. There are many single ingredient foods that you can purchase or natural or organic options for just about anything you have in your freezer, refrigerator or pantry shelf. There are farmer’s markets all over the nation, co-ops, health food stores and large chains of stores that do not sell artificial products. Please do NOT say, it is too expensive. The people that exclaim these words pay a fortune weekly at fast food or other unhealthy restaurant options. Add up your cost for that soda, that burger, those fries and other side dishes. Add in a tip, if you go out. Compare your grocery bill to that of your “eating out” bill. Write down EVERY time you purchase outside food, this includes lunch and beverages parents’ purchase for themselves, while at work or in route to their destinations. Keep track of what you and your family are eating and the cost. Then go one week with NEVER eating out, yet purchasing only foods with healthy, natural ingredients. Why not shop at Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods or other similar stores in your area for one week of groceries. Not only will you save money, but also your family will have the best bowel movements, the best skin, and the best feeling inside mentally and physically. Yes, this means packing lunches for school and work daily, or perhaps even for a ride in the car on vacations or just day trips. Once you see the changes in your family after one week, you will not want to stop. One month will show you even more of the huge changes in your families’ daily existences.
Be cognizant, read labels, pay attention to what you buy, where you buy it, what the ingredients are for every morsel that you and your family ingest. Stop being ignorant. Share what you have learned with other families. It takes a village to change poor eating habits! Why not start today?

For much more in-depth details to everything mentioned in this article and much more, please go to Barrie Silberberg’s web site: www.puttingyourkidsfirst.com and discover more about her book: The Autism & ADHD Diet: A Step-by-Step Guide to Hope and Healing by Living Gluten Free and Casein Free (GFCF) and Other Interventions.

The Autism & ADHD Diet is available at all major bookstores, Amazon.com and many other online book retailers. Click Here for Barrie’s website Putting Your Kids First.

Reprinted with permission from Parenting Special Needs Magazine, Mar/Apr ‘11 Issue, Copyright [2011] by Parenting Special Needs LLC.  http://www.parentingspecialneeds.org.

Why Emergency Responder Education Part II – Behaviors

Yesterday I participated in a beautiful 9/11 memorial service and emergency preparedness festival. I am still brought to tears when the events of that horrific day are described by anyone, especially those who serve in public safety. I am honored to be a part of a huge calling to encourage citizens to get involved and help their families, neighbors, and community be prepared for disasters of all kinds. To learn more about how you can be involved in your community, go to the Citizen Corps website.

Common behaviors of children with Autism and how to handle them

As promised, here is part two of why I am passionate about training and educating Emergency Responders about Autism. Here is a snapshot of behaviors that are highly likely to be misinterpreted by police officers, EMTs, or firefighters responding to an emergency call:

Self-stimulatory (stimming)

  • Hand flapping
  • Finger play
  • Head tapping
  • Spinning
  • Transfixing on spinning or moving objects

Unless the child is injuring himself or others, self-stimulatory behaviors should not be stopped. This is a comfort for the child.

Self-injurious

  • Head banging
  • Biting self
  • Scratching
  • Eye gouging

This behavior should be stopped immediately.

Aggressive behavior is not intentional - handle with care

  • Head butting
  • Biting
  • Punching
  • Crashing into or pushing others

Aggressive behavior is usually caused by over-stimulation, sensory-seeking, fear, pain, surprise, or lack of communication.  Remember this child does not mean to hurt you. Restrain if needed, as calmly and controlled as possible.

Insensitivity to pain

  • May be unaware of pain
  • May under-react: major physical trauma may go unnoticed
  • May over-react: minor scrapes and cuts could be perceived as major

Check thoroughly for injuries; do not rely on communication or reaction from the child.

Aversion to touch

  • Light touches (hand on shoulder, back rubbing) may be painful

Although they may crave deep compression and tight squeezes, light touch is often over-magnified and can cause pain and discomfort. Do not approach the child from behind if possible; children with Autism do not like surprises.

Avoiding eye contact

  • May look at you through peripheral glance
  • May look at you through an object or spread fingers

Do not mistake lack of eye contact for suspicion of guilt, avoidance, lack of respect, or belligerence.  Try to get eye contact if you can, but do not force it.

Lack of response

  • May only respond to visual cues

Emergency responders should consider carrying sets of visual communication cards, or familiarizing themselves with basic sign language.

Repetitive motion

  • May repeatedly fidget with an item
  • May fixate on spinning or lighted objects
  • May appear to be in a trance

Do not mistake for drug use, mental illness, or lack of respect for authority.

Extreme hyperactivity or inactivity

  • Prone to running or bolting away suddenly

    Children with Autism are prone to running away - especially if frightened or confused

  • May rapidly pace back and forth
  • May appear out of control (like the Tasmanian Devil!)
  • May go limp at touch or fold into self

Redirection is the best way to diffuse hyperactivity or passivity. Try asking what the child’s favorite show, game, or movie is.  Asking mathematical questions or giving the child a “job” to will reel in their focus.

Inappropriate emotional response

  • May laugh or cry for no reason
  • May laugh at a very serious situation, or in response to feeling or causing pain
  • May show extreme distress over minor incidents

This is very hard for us to understand. Laughter in response to a serious question or accusation does not imply guilt or disrespect. It is simply a defense mechanism for the child.

Echoing speech or movement

  • May repeat everything you say
  • May mimic your tone and gestures
  • May speak in robotic tone

Do not mistake this for “being a wise guy”, or lack of respect.

Non-verbal and non-responsive to verbal cues

  • Limited or no speech
  • May appear deaf
  • May communicate with sign language, by pointing, or using picture cards

Do not mistake for lack of interest or ignorance. Try to use common gestures to get through to the child. Be patient!

Attachment

  • May hold unusual items
  • May be extremely agitated or distressed if item cannot be located

While seeming unimportant or silly to us, comfort items are critically important to children with Autism. It may be a rock, a paper clip, fabric, shoelace, or anything. Do not take away the item from the child. Try to find the item if the child loses it.

Need for routine and order

  • Obsessed about routines
  • Literal about things like time and location (“It’s not 8:30, it’s 8:28!”)
  • May repeatedly seek places or activities from the child’s normal routine

Children with Autism look to bring order to a world that’s out of order to them. Noise, lights, smells, and other sensory challenges are coming at them all the time. This is their norm.

Oblivious to others’ emotions

  • Typically do not understand facial expressions
  • Will not understand sarcasm, idioms, exaggerations, or jokes
  • May not understand they are a victim of a crime
  • May be hard to diffuse situation with normal socialization techniques (e.g., “How would YOU feel if…”)

Don’t assume that these children “should know better”, or that a simple unapproving look will get through to them. They rarely know what they did wrong and need it explained in a way they understand.

Children may respond to loud or confusing noises by screaming to drown it out

Inappropriate response to noise

  • Hyper sensitive: May cover ears with hands or try to break object that is causing discomfort
  • Hypo sensitive: May appear deaf or not respond to verbal commands

Each child on the Spectrum presents different variations of sensory issues – no two are alike! They can even be hyper and hypo sensitive to the same thing!

No fear of danger

  • May run into traffic
  • May bolt suddenly into the street or a hazardous environment
  • May willingly go with strangers
  • Will not recognize dangerous situations
  • May not understand fire, heat, sharp objects, or other hazardous items

While often possessing extraordinary academic abilities, many children with Autism do not recognize danger, exhibit no fear, are prone to wandering, and miss basic cause and effect concepts (“If I touch this, I will get burned”). Never leave unsupervised at the scene of an accident, fire, disaster, or crime.